I love Christmas so much that I have two trees in my two room cabin and am still high over the string of vintage metal stockings that I scored from The Painted Lily in Cambria.
But this was not always the case. For many people loss of loved ones, distance – physical or emotional – from immediate family pushes on emotions still stored in the body.
Below are 3 links – click on the blue - to help you get through the holidays.
1. Christmas
2. New Years
I hate beginnings. This is why I don’t make New Year’s Resolutions. Let’s face it, there are no beginnings without endings and I loath endings even more. This year, I’m starting the New Year in the middle.
3. And Ikea
Ikea?
Yes, Ikea is my latest addiction. Not only is Ikea my new favorite store, but the You Tube drama, Ikea Heights is rebelliously filmed on location without management permission. Hooray for creative and hilarious Rebels.
Hugs for a peaceful, quiet, joyful, inspirational holiday and everyday,
Love Dot
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Monday, November 23, 2009
A Collage in Every Garage
I have a theory that if everyone has just one collage in their garage, then everyone will have the answers in tangible form to the questions that we have been living.
I’m settled in my cozy little cabin, with the “I Am an Organized and Disciplined Business Woman” collage on my office wall. I created the collage Christmas Day 2007. Reading through the folder of non-dominant handwriting which represents the perspective of the images, I begin to cry with happiness.
“Trust reaching for what makes you happy.”
Reaching is expansive. Reaching is a verb.
What are you reaching for today?
In joy,
Dorothy
I’m settled in my cozy little cabin, with the “I Am an Organized and Disciplined Business Woman” collage on my office wall. I created the collage Christmas Day 2007. Reading through the folder of non-dominant handwriting which represents the perspective of the images, I begin to cry with happiness.
“Trust reaching for what makes you happy.”
Reaching is expansive. Reaching is a verb.
What are you reaching for today?
In joy,
Dorothy
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Wouldn't it be Nice?
Okay, so this is the title of a Beach Boys song. But these guys must have been onto something because....according to Esther and Jerry Hicks, Wouldn't it be Nice? is one way to release resistance to receiving all the blessings that are just waiting to poured down on our precious little heads.
Here's how it works.
The point of the game is to move from discouragement to joy - one vibrational step at a time.
The one step at a time is important. Basically, we claim relief from what ever we are feeling in each moment. This is why ferociously repeating affirmations doesn't work. Trying to ramp up our energy to joy when we are worried is like driving from San Luis Obispo to Santa Cruz and being angry when we haven't arrived at the Big Ferris Wheel on the boardwalk a mere 10 minutes after we started our trip.
Often times, when we think we are being positive we are actually holding ourselves in the vibration of what hasn't happened yet; thereby attracting more of what hasn't happened yet.
"I really want more money because I'm sick of being broke all the time."
"I want to lose weight because I want to feel good about myself."
"I want to meet someone so I'm not lonely anymore."
All of the above phrases focus on what we don't have. But rephrasing the statement into 'wouldn't it be nice?' sentences creates a more positive feeling.
"Wouldn't it be nice to feel good about money?"
"Wouldn't it be nice if my metabolism cooperated with me and I felt great?"
"Wouldn't it be nice to meet a partner to share my life with?"
If you say all of the above statements out loud you will feel the vibrational difference. Once you start playing the game, the cells in your body will start moving toward attracting and manifesting your new vibration. But it does take some time - so be patient!
And most of all, enjoy the process....
Wouldn't it be nice for all of us to know that we are guided, blessed and loved?
Dorothy
PS: To learn more about vibrational alignment, check out Esther and Jerry Hicks book
Ask and It Is Given. www.abraham-hicks.com
Here's how it works.
The point of the game is to move from discouragement to joy - one vibrational step at a time.
The one step at a time is important. Basically, we claim relief from what ever we are feeling in each moment. This is why ferociously repeating affirmations doesn't work. Trying to ramp up our energy to joy when we are worried is like driving from San Luis Obispo to Santa Cruz and being angry when we haven't arrived at the Big Ferris Wheel on the boardwalk a mere 10 minutes after we started our trip.
Often times, when we think we are being positive we are actually holding ourselves in the vibration of what hasn't happened yet; thereby attracting more of what hasn't happened yet.
"I really want more money because I'm sick of being broke all the time."
"I want to lose weight because I want to feel good about myself."
"I want to meet someone so I'm not lonely anymore."
All of the above phrases focus on what we don't have. But rephrasing the statement into 'wouldn't it be nice?' sentences creates a more positive feeling.
"Wouldn't it be nice to feel good about money?"
"Wouldn't it be nice if my metabolism cooperated with me and I felt great?"
"Wouldn't it be nice to meet a partner to share my life with?"
If you say all of the above statements out loud you will feel the vibrational difference. Once you start playing the game, the cells in your body will start moving toward attracting and manifesting your new vibration. But it does take some time - so be patient!
And most of all, enjoy the process....
Wouldn't it be nice for all of us to know that we are guided, blessed and loved?
Dorothy
PS: To learn more about vibrational alignment, check out Esther and Jerry Hicks book
Ask and It Is Given. www.abraham-hicks.com
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
Sculpting Joy
So I just moved into my new permanent digs here in San Luis Obispo county. This is a big surprise considering that I have been all about Santa Cruz county for the past year. But here’s the thing. When you’ve reached the end of your vision and you don’t have a plan – how do you know where to go?
Allow your joy.
When the lease was up on my Capitola place, I knew that it was time to move on. I made plans to help my mother after her recent knee surgery and had a couple weeks of pet-sitting after that. Knowing that I was covered for about a month – I let go of a life that no longer worked to allow a life that does.
This is where it gets a little tricky. Being human and all, we love knowing the NEXT step before we move on from the LAST step. But the chaotic void is where all the fun begins.
And yes, I’ve been scared.
The first thing I did on my journey was to keep the feeling of what I wanted in my heart, body and mind as much as possible. Whenever I got scared or overwhelmed, I would say an affirmation such as: “Heaven knows what I need and it’s on the way.” Or “I am blessed, I say yes to life.” I kept up on my positive reading: and most of all, took lots of breathing breaks.
The result was that I followed the good feelings through 7 pet-sitting gigs with overnights at a friend’s fabulous guest house. I learned that while I can never eradicate FEAR – I can dance with her pretty well.
Allowing joy is like taking a big lump of clay and seeing the joy already present. Slowly we mold the clay and remove the pieces that don’t fit. Sometimes, the pieces fall away without our help. Taking the steps to listen to, and allow our feelings moves us into the present moment. We mold our joy with each breath.
I’m typing in my freezing but cute little cabin-ita in Los Osos and I’ve been here officially for 6 days. I’ve had glimpses of joy in between unpacking – but it was fleeting among all of the boxes.
But, finally today, the 7th day, I am amazed and grateful and startled and slightly confused that I landed HERE – and I’m smiling.
May you follow the joy that lives in your heart,
Dorothy
PS: I am teaching workshops at the Be Well Center in Atascadero! Join me for my first class Monday, October 12, 7pm-8:30pm: How to Bring Joy to Your Life. (And please, tell a friend.) More workshops are listed on my calendar as well. Click the title above to go directly to my website.
Allow your joy.
When the lease was up on my Capitola place, I knew that it was time to move on. I made plans to help my mother after her recent knee surgery and had a couple weeks of pet-sitting after that. Knowing that I was covered for about a month – I let go of a life that no longer worked to allow a life that does.
This is where it gets a little tricky. Being human and all, we love knowing the NEXT step before we move on from the LAST step. But the chaotic void is where all the fun begins.
And yes, I’ve been scared.
The first thing I did on my journey was to keep the feeling of what I wanted in my heart, body and mind as much as possible. Whenever I got scared or overwhelmed, I would say an affirmation such as: “Heaven knows what I need and it’s on the way.” Or “I am blessed, I say yes to life.” I kept up on my positive reading: and most of all, took lots of breathing breaks.
The result was that I followed the good feelings through 7 pet-sitting gigs with overnights at a friend’s fabulous guest house. I learned that while I can never eradicate FEAR – I can dance with her pretty well.
Allowing joy is like taking a big lump of clay and seeing the joy already present. Slowly we mold the clay and remove the pieces that don’t fit. Sometimes, the pieces fall away without our help. Taking the steps to listen to, and allow our feelings moves us into the present moment. We mold our joy with each breath.
I’m typing in my freezing but cute little cabin-ita in Los Osos and I’ve been here officially for 6 days. I’ve had glimpses of joy in between unpacking – but it was fleeting among all of the boxes.
But, finally today, the 7th day, I am amazed and grateful and startled and slightly confused that I landed HERE – and I’m smiling.
May you follow the joy that lives in your heart,
Dorothy
PS: I am teaching workshops at the Be Well Center in Atascadero! Join me for my first class Monday, October 12, 7pm-8:30pm: How to Bring Joy to Your Life. (And please, tell a friend.) More workshops are listed on my calendar as well. Click the title above to go directly to my website.
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Visioning(R) without Collaging...
When I don't want to make a collage about a goal because I'm too busy or am already focusing on a collage - the next best thing is to take time to journal my vision.
I have a special book that I reserve for dream journaling. Many times when I review my dreams - I find that they have manifested in fun and surprising ways.
Follow these steps to get your emotions to vibrate at the speed of your dream and be sure to celebrate the steps along the way!
Materials: Favorite journal book and pen, timer, blank 81/2 by 11 paper. Be sure you have at least 30 uninterrupted minutes in a soothing space - outside is perfect if it is available. Make a cup of tea, or light a candle to create the atmosphere of a mini-retreat.
1. Use the blank paper to do a fast 10 minutes of journal junk. This is where you put your pen to the paper and write as fast as you can. This allows the rational mind to release any worries or complaints. Be sure to set the timer. If you run out of things to write, simply start the sentence with I'm worried about...
2. Close your eyes and let your mind focus on the vision. You are playing pretend - your vision is as big as your imagination.
3. Next, take your journal and put the date that you want your vision to manifest by - at the top of the page. Set the timer for 20 minutes and write about your vision in 1st person.
"I now have a fun, rewarding job working with people I love and respect. The office is spacious and ...."
4. If you stop writing, close your eyes and imagine yourself as if the situation is happening...then start writing until the timer stops.
Use the questions below to help fill in the details. Remember, to vision is to create an emotional feeling of joy that you associate with your dream. That way, when you run into obstacles, you feel past the problem by assuming there is a solution.
When your vision manifests, who is the 1st person you'd call?
How would you celebrate?
What needs to happen for the demonstration of the vision? (That is, what outfit would you wear to your new job...?)
If this exercise creates uncomfortable feelings - then good! That means the mind closet is being opened and cleared. Now you can see what no longer works in your life so you can make room for what does work.
5. After your vision is written, read the vision outloud several times until you mean it. (I sometimes record the vision on my digital recorder and listen to it in my car when I'm stuck in traffic.)
6. Bless and release your vision into the atmosphere. Give yourself a hug for spending time on your dreams.
7. Let me know when your dream manifests....
Dorothy
I have a special book that I reserve for dream journaling. Many times when I review my dreams - I find that they have manifested in fun and surprising ways.
Follow these steps to get your emotions to vibrate at the speed of your dream and be sure to celebrate the steps along the way!
Materials: Favorite journal book and pen, timer, blank 81/2 by 11 paper. Be sure you have at least 30 uninterrupted minutes in a soothing space - outside is perfect if it is available. Make a cup of tea, or light a candle to create the atmosphere of a mini-retreat.
1. Use the blank paper to do a fast 10 minutes of journal junk. This is where you put your pen to the paper and write as fast as you can. This allows the rational mind to release any worries or complaints. Be sure to set the timer. If you run out of things to write, simply start the sentence with I'm worried about...
2. Close your eyes and let your mind focus on the vision. You are playing pretend - your vision is as big as your imagination.
3. Next, take your journal and put the date that you want your vision to manifest by - at the top of the page. Set the timer for 20 minutes and write about your vision in 1st person.
"I now have a fun, rewarding job working with people I love and respect. The office is spacious and ...."
4. If you stop writing, close your eyes and imagine yourself as if the situation is happening...then start writing until the timer stops.
Use the questions below to help fill in the details. Remember, to vision is to create an emotional feeling of joy that you associate with your dream. That way, when you run into obstacles, you feel past the problem by assuming there is a solution.
When your vision manifests, who is the 1st person you'd call?
How would you celebrate?
What needs to happen for the demonstration of the vision? (That is, what outfit would you wear to your new job...?)
If this exercise creates uncomfortable feelings - then good! That means the mind closet is being opened and cleared. Now you can see what no longer works in your life so you can make room for what does work.
5. After your vision is written, read the vision outloud several times until you mean it. (I sometimes record the vision on my digital recorder and listen to it in my car when I'm stuck in traffic.)
6. Bless and release your vision into the atmosphere. Give yourself a hug for spending time on your dreams.
7. Let me know when your dream manifests....
Dorothy
Saturday, August 8, 2009
What to do with Your Vision Board
In the poll posted in the sidebar of this blog – one person said that their vision collage manifested wonderfully, but others said they weren’t sure what to do with their collage after it was created. Once the vision board is complete, use the following guidelines based on the book by Lucia Capacchione, Visioning: Ten Steps to Designing the Life of Your Dreams.
Have a journal with you to record any insights you may have.
*Be sure you share your collage or insights ONLY with those who you feel safe with and who support your dream.
1. Give your collage a place of honor in your home to display your vision.
2. Spend time viewing your collage – at least 15 minutes – several times a week.
This allows the energy of the images permeate your heart so you will ‘recognize’ circumstances as they flow toward you.
3. As you look at your creation, notice the colors and shapes of the collage pieces as well. Do you notice any recurring themes or colors?
If your vision isn’t manifesting ask yourself:
Do I spend time with my collage daily?
Weekly?
Do I follow my vision with inspired action?
That is - if you know you need to clear out the garage for the new office you are manifesting – have you done it?
If not, then why not?
Does it FEEL GOOD to look at your collage?
One reason why Visioning® doesn’t work is because often times we collage what think we SHOULD have. In other words, your collage may be what your mind says you want – but your heart needs to lead the way. The rational mind will come later, when it is time to put the plan into action.
Another reason why a collage doesn’t manifest is because of the voice inside your head that rationalizes away your desire. You’re too busy, too broke or too tired to go for another dream. Beware! This voice has IT’S OWN AGENDA and your dream is not on the list. (Read Visioning® Step Five: The Inner Critic.)
Your vision is given to you by the grace of the One that created you. It’s your gift, your blessing. Let your vision lead you. Let go of what no longer serves you to make room for your desire. Be brave enough to ask: am I following my vision today?
May the journey to your dreams be filled with yes,
Dorothy
Have a journal with you to record any insights you may have.
*Be sure you share your collage or insights ONLY with those who you feel safe with and who support your dream.
1. Give your collage a place of honor in your home to display your vision.
2. Spend time viewing your collage – at least 15 minutes – several times a week.
This allows the energy of the images permeate your heart so you will ‘recognize’ circumstances as they flow toward you.
3. As you look at your creation, notice the colors and shapes of the collage pieces as well. Do you notice any recurring themes or colors?
If your vision isn’t manifesting ask yourself:
Do I spend time with my collage daily?
Weekly?
Do I follow my vision with inspired action?
That is - if you know you need to clear out the garage for the new office you are manifesting – have you done it?
If not, then why not?
Does it FEEL GOOD to look at your collage?
One reason why Visioning® doesn’t work is because often times we collage what think we SHOULD have. In other words, your collage may be what your mind says you want – but your heart needs to lead the way. The rational mind will come later, when it is time to put the plan into action.
Another reason why a collage doesn’t manifest is because of the voice inside your head that rationalizes away your desire. You’re too busy, too broke or too tired to go for another dream. Beware! This voice has IT’S OWN AGENDA and your dream is not on the list. (Read Visioning® Step Five: The Inner Critic.)
Your vision is given to you by the grace of the One that created you. It’s your gift, your blessing. Let your vision lead you. Let go of what no longer serves you to make room for your desire. Be brave enough to ask: am I following my vision today?
May the journey to your dreams be filled with yes,
Dorothy
Monday, July 13, 2009
The Dollar Bone
My mother used to dance in the kitchen singing a song called Dry Bones. “The leg bone connects to the thigh bone, the thigh bone connects to the hip bone, the hip bone connects to the….and that’s the way it goes!”
Connection means relationship whether we are connected at the hip or connected to where we buy our daily bread.
This shopping season, let's connect with our community by supporting smaller, family/individual owned shops. One of the biggest reasons people don’t visit local stores is the myth of big prices, small choice. For me, the main reason why I duck into a Big Box shop is that I claim I don’t have the time to visit a bunch of smaller retails rather than one big variety store.
On a recent foray for a watch battery, I put my time where my mouth is and stopped at Cayucos Pharmacy. In addition to my watch battery, I found a ½ price calendar, a bargain on the shampoo I use and a purple calculator for my purse. I carry it as a reminder that the benefits of buying local can’t always be tallied up in numbers. The afterglow of knowing that I gave my buying bucks to a neighborhood business was worth my effort.
The issue of how to maintain small town heart with big time progress is an important to all of us. As individuals we do have the power of choice. And choosing to be connected to what we purchase with our hard earned dollars is an empowering choice that we can’t afford to lose.
Connection means relationship whether we are connected at the hip or connected to where we buy our daily bread.
This shopping season, let's connect with our community by supporting smaller, family/individual owned shops. One of the biggest reasons people don’t visit local stores is the myth of big prices, small choice. For me, the main reason why I duck into a Big Box shop is that I claim I don’t have the time to visit a bunch of smaller retails rather than one big variety store.
On a recent foray for a watch battery, I put my time where my mouth is and stopped at Cayucos Pharmacy. In addition to my watch battery, I found a ½ price calendar, a bargain on the shampoo I use and a purple calculator for my purse. I carry it as a reminder that the benefits of buying local can’t always be tallied up in numbers. The afterglow of knowing that I gave my buying bucks to a neighborhood business was worth my effort.
The issue of how to maintain small town heart with big time progress is an important to all of us. As individuals we do have the power of choice. And choosing to be connected to what we purchase with our hard earned dollars is an empowering choice that we can’t afford to lose.
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